What Do You Actually Want? Four Questions Worth Asking Yourself This International Youth Day

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August 12 2026 • 2 min read

It’s International Youth Day on 12 August 2026.

This year’s theme is “Different Contexts, Common Aspirations.” Basically, wherever you’re starting from, whatever your situation looks like, the things you actually want are probably not that different from anyone else’s.

A Youth Futures Djinda staff member talks with a young person over coffee in a home-style kitchen setting.

If someone asked you right now what you actually want out of life, could you answer straight away?

Most people can’t. Not because they don’t want anything, but because it’s hard to hear your own answer over everything else going on. School, family, money, where you’re sleeping tonight. It all gets loud.

So what does the theme “Different Contexts, Common Aspirations” mean?

The idea is simple. Wherever you’re starting from, whatever your situation looks like, the things you actually want are probably not that different from anyone else’s. Dignity. A say in your own life. Something that feels like yours.

So instead of another post about what an organisation does, here are four questions we’ve watched genuinely help young people get clearer on what they want, no matter how messy things are right now.

A young person and a Youth Futures Djinda staff member sit and chat in a comfortable lounge setting, with the young person holding a folder.

1. What do I want versus what feels possible?

These are two different questions, and it’s easy to only answer the second one. If money, housing, or school results weren’t a factor, what would you choose? That answer matters, even if you can’t act on it yet.

2. Who do I talk to who isn’t already deciding things for me?

Parents, carers and teachers all care, but they’re also often the ones setting the rules. Sometimes you need someone a bit removed from the situation to help you hear yourself think.

3. What’s one thing I can do right now?

You don’t need a five-year plan. You need one thing you can do right now.  Asking for help could be a great first step.   Small and specific beats big and overwhelming every time.

4. What do I do when nobody’s watching?

Not what you’re supposed to be doing but what you love doing when there is no audience, no pressure. That’s usually a better clue to who you really are and what you value the most.

Two young students sit together outdoors holding basketballs, lit by warm afternoon sun against a dark background.

Why we’re the ones saying this

We ask young people versions of these questions every day, whether they’re finishing school at one of our campuses or staying in one of our 24/7 supported accommodation services.

We’ve learned that a young person’s context can make these questions harder to answer, but it never changes the fact that they deserve the chance to answer them.

If you’re a young person figuring this out, or you know one who could use a hand, we’re here.

 Different starting point. Same right to a future you actually chose.

 

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